Being a content creator is a test of faith. Why? Because it’s the complete opposite of what’s expected of you. Working a 9-5 is expected of you. It’s expected that you’ll give 40 hours a week (or more) to a corporation that could get rid of you in a heartbeat. The traditional norm is to go to the office, grab happy hour afterwards, and repeat.
Some people don’t pursue their purpose because of this need for external validation — because they want to fit in. I was the same way for a while. I was too worried about having a stable job and steady income, doing things the “right” way. But the right way still wasn’t working. I realized that no job was truly stable, and that’s when I decided to jump all in to my calling and not look back.
This has been one of my biggest tests of faith. You see, I don’t have anyone to depend on for a steady paycheck anymore. I can only depend on my efforts and on God’s provision. I’m stretching my belief in myself and in God that this is going to work because, quite frankly, I have no other choice. It has to work.
I have to trust and commit to consistency and discipline, believing that my efforts will bear fruit. If I keep watering the seeds of creating content, it has no choice but to grow, right?
When you cut the anchors of stability and safety nets, you can only count on yourself — and ultimately on God. If things don’t work out, there’s no one else to blame.
And along the way, you face doubters and naysayers who don’t understand the vision. Like Noah, mocked while building the Ark, you keep building what God placed inside of you — even when no one else sees it.
Because that’s what faith really is: believing before you see, showing up before the results, and trusting that the seeds you plant today will grow into the future you prayed for tomorrow.
Sometimes, answered prayers don’t look the way you want them to. Sometimes they come in the form of a no… a closed door.
There was an opportunity that came through my email, which I thought would be a perfect fit. My funds were running low, and I thought this opportunity could hold me over. But I thought back to all the times I accepted opportunities that were seemingly good on the surface but eventually blew up in my face.
So I did what anyone would do in this situation when faced with making a decision: I prayed about it.
“God, if you want this for me, it has to be completely right all the way through to the end of it. And if it’s a distraction and it’s not meant for me, please take it away.”
It turns out that the opportunity fell through. It was actually a carrot-on-a-stick kind of opportunity, not even solidified. At first, I was frustrated and annoyed. Why would someone put out a feeler just to gauge interest or leads in this type of economy and get people hopeful?
But then I was reminded of my prayer, and I was left with a peaceful assurance. It wouldn’t have been the right fit, and God knew that. This was probably just a sneak peek of the culture I’d be dealing with, and it probably wouldn’t have ended well.
All that glitters isn’t gold, and I didn’t need to learn that lesson twice.
Sometimes in life, you’re hit with those moments where you think, I can’t believe my luck. That’s exactly how I felt when I came across this dupe of the Polène Cyme Bag. It’s affordable, beautiful, and even comes in colors the original doesn’t offer.
I’m especially in love with the Charles & Keith version in espresso brown. The trapeze shape and belt-knot detailing make it such a standout. It comes pretty close to the original, though the Anthropologie version is a bit more precise—especially in the stitching.
What do you think? Would you make a purchase?
1. XL Calla Tote Bag – Espresso Brown
They also come in a mini or regular sized version – take a look!
2. Anthropologie Top Handle Long Tote
When I first see a bag, I’m mesmerized by its design, structure, shape and overall aesthetic — not the name on the label. The designer matters less than the creativity behind the piece. Buying a handbag is a statement: it says I love design and I appreciate artistry.
That’s why I fell for the Polène Numéro Neuf Mini — its cute, dumpling-like silhouette is fresh and striking. It’s been an it bag since it launched, but the price hasn’t really been a hit. So I began my search for an affordable alternative. Like many people hunting for a dupe (myself included), I found one on the Quince site.
The Quince Italian Leather Trapeze Crossbody gives you those high-end, luxury feels at a friendly, approachable price. Made from 100% top-grain Italian leather, the trapeze shape adds a modern twist to a classic design. A magnetic snap closure keeps everything secure, and the convertible, adjustable strap lets you wear it as a shoulder bag or crossbody depending on the look.
What’s also impressive is the care behind how it’s made. The bag is produced in Sedex-certified factories, which focus on improving working conditions across the supply chain. The leather is tanned in a Leather Working Group (LWG) certified tannery, meaning the leather supplier follows sustainable practices — from reduced water and energy use to responsible waste management and limiting restricted substances. The Quince Trapeze Crossbody is produced in Dongguan, China and the Philippines, and it manages to balance thoughtful craftsmanship with an accessible price point.
If you want the Polène look without the heavy price tag, the Quince Italian Leather Trapeze Crossbody is one of the best dupes I’ve found. It keeps the creativity and sculptural shape I love while being more budget-friendly — proof you can celebrate design and artistry without overspending.
Your work bag is more than just a catch-all for your laptop and notebooks—it’s an extension of your personal style. The right bag doesn’t just carry your essentials; it elevates your entire look, signaling polish, professionalism, and personality. Whether you’re heading into the office, meeting clients, or transitioning straight to dinner, an elevated work bag is the finishing touch that pulls your outfit together.
Here’s what to look for (and some chic styles to consider):
1. The Structured Tote
Classic, timeless, and roomy enough for your laptop, the structured tote is a go-to for the modern professional. Look for clean lines, quality leather (or vegan alternatives), and neutral tones like black, tan, or navy. Pair it with tailored trousers and a blazer, and you instantly look pulled together.
✨ Tip: Invest in one with a zip closure to keep everything secure during commutes.
2. The Mini Work Satchel
If you don’t need to carry much besides your tablet, planner, and wallet, a smaller structured satchel is a chic option. It’s less bulky but still polished—and perfect for hybrid workers who don’t always haul their entire desk to the office.
✨ Pair With: Dresses, midi skirts, or smart casual outfits to keep proportions balanced.
3. The Statement Bag
For those who love adding personality to their workwear, a bold bag in a rich color (think burgundy, forest green, or deep plum) or textured finish (like croc-embossed) makes a subtle but powerful statement. It says: I’m professional, but I know how to stand out.
✨ Pro Tip: Keep the rest of your outfit neutral and let the bag do the talking.
Check out the rest of the list here.
Your work bag is an investment—one you use daily and that speaks volumes about your style. Whether you lean minimalist, practical, or bold, choosing an elevated bag ensures you look polished and prepared, no matter where your day takes you.
Ever stand in front of your closet and think, “I have nothing to wear”… even though it’s full of clothes? You’re not alone. Most of us struggle with our wardrobes—not because we lack clothes, but because we haven’t discovered our personal style yet.
Struggling With Your Style?
Do you ever feel like:
- You have a closet full of clothes but nothing feels right?
- You spend way too much time getting dressed in the morning?
- You buy trendy pieces that never end up working with anything else?
- You wish you could have a wardrobe that feels polished, effortless, and truly “you”?
If this sounds familiar, it’s not your fault. Most people never learned how to define their style or build a wardrobe that actually works for their life.
Why Personal Style Matters
Your personal style is more than just clothes—it’s how you express yourself. When you know your style, getting dressed becomes effortless. You feel confident, put-together, and authentically you.
The good news? You can create a wardrobe that works for your lifestyle, flatters your body, and feels aligned with your personality.
Introducing: “How to Create a Personal Style You Love”
My ebook is a step-by-step guide to discovering your authentic style and building a wardrobe that makes every day easier and more stylish.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
✨ Discover your unique style DNA
✨ Build a cohesive wardrobe that mixes and matches effortlessly
✨ Shop smarter to avoid impulse buys and wasted money
✨ Master styling tricks that instantly elevate your look
Stop stressing about your clothes and start dressing with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
